What happens if a girl after her marriage went to her boyfriend without divorce in Indian culture?

by Bob on September 6, 2010

A girl got married with out interest in that marriage.
She married because of the family pressure only.
Before marriage she loved a guy and now what happens if she moved out to that guy with out taking divorce from her husband?

{ 6 comments }

Rushi Mounam September 6, 2010 at 3:34 pm

practically speaking…if she does not take divorce, she will get divorce from her husband..simple

who will lose…who will gain….is fate, time, philosophy and religion

Mac Watson September 6, 2010 at 3:34 pm

Hey dear friend in Indian culture it is not allowed. That you are married and after that you are going to another guy. you can go until you take divorce. In this situation that guy can’t help although he loves her now.

Canta Jones September 6, 2010 at 3:34 pm

If it is a forced marriage, then she is in the deep end. It will be frowned upon, and divorce is not accept. They will see her as a slut, and her family may disown her. Sorry if married into it, she will have to stay in it. Unless she moves to a European country, or America, where is is accepted, and people would take her side.
If you go to one of the above, and file for divorce on the grounds that she doesn’t love him, and say it was a pressured marriage.

I do hope it end’s up good!

Peanut Butter Mocha September 6, 2010 at 3:34 pm

Even in the west, among indians here, it is not accepted that one leave her hubby and reside with her bf. Even if it was a forced marriage, society would want u to work it out, n forget ur lover. ANd if there’s no solution, if the family loves the girl, they will seek divorce, or tell her to wait ’til he files, but the lover would b out of the picture, since they care more about family honor. But westerners will b on ur side….although, they would tell you to get a divorce first, n not bow to family pressure, since ur an adult. Even among the anglos, cheating isnt tolerated. Now, in europe, there’s a thing called open marriage, so if this can b considered an open marriage, then they might b on ur side, and urge ur hubby to find a gal too. In indian culture, honor is more important, in western culture, happiness is more important.

jagannath_kr September 6, 2010 at 3:34 pm

It is said: you cannot clap with single palm.
Whether it is pressure or not. The mistake lies with the girl. She cannot blame anybody after marriage. She should have approached the Police or an Advocate to avoid unwanted marriage.
As per the constitution of India, Boy who attains the age of 21 and the girl of 18 can decide themselves to marry or not, as they are independent to take decisions. The girl after marriage cannot prove that the marriage was solemnized out of pressure. By going to her ex-boy friend deserting her husband for no fault of him is treated as illegal action (behaviour) on the part of that girl who abondons her husband. In another way, she is also defaming her husband as well as her self in the eyes of law and public. This will be dealt severely by the hands of Law. The girl will be sentenced to jail by the Court of law.

mssanu s September 6, 2010 at 3:34 pm

illegal child may be expected
Marriage certificate is missed.
Sure to miss some gifts

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